Queen Camilla’s son, Tom Parker-Bowles, has been open about his complicated family dynamics, including his decision to skip the royal family’s Christmas gatherings at Sandringham. Despite being part of the royal family by marriage, Tom has carved out his own path in life, maintaining a close relationship with his mother while keeping a respectful distance from the royal family.
Tom’s mother, Queen Camilla, has been a steady presence in his life, despite the scrutiny she faced in the 1990s due to her relationship with King Charles. Tom has spoken fondly of his mother, describing her as a good parent who has always been there for him. He has also acknowledged the challenges she faced during that time, saying he felt protective of her.
As a food writer and critic, Tom has built a successful career outside of the royal family. He has written several books, including “Cooking and the Crown: Royal Recipes from Queen Victoria to King Charles III.” Tom’s love of food was influenced by his mother’s simple yet delicious cooking, which often featured roast chicken and game dishes.
Despite his royal connections, Tom prefers to keep a low profile. He has described himself as a “middle-aged nepo boy” who would rather not be associated with his mother’s job. However, he has spoken candidly about his family dynamics, including the complexities of their blended family.
Tom’s father, Andrew Parker-Bowles, divorced Queen Camilla in 1995. She later married King Charles in 2005. Tom has two children of his own, Freddy and Lola, from his previous marriage to Sara Buys. Despite his divorce, Tom prioritizes his children’s happiness and well-being, saying his top responsibility is to ensure they are “happy, safe, and comfortable.”
Tom’s children have a close relationship with their grandparents, affectionately referring to Queen Camilla and King Charles as “Gaga” and “Uppa.” Tom has praised King Charles as an “amazing step-grandfather” who has been supportive of his family.
While Tom may not attend the royal family’s Christmas celebrations at Sandringham, he does spend time with his mother during the holiday season. Queen Camilla often joins Tom and his family for a post-Christmas gathering, continuing their festive traditions.
Tom has spoken highly of his mother’s strength and resilience, particularly during King Charles’s health issues. He has praised the King’s fortitude in the face of cancer, saying, “The King is strong.” Tom has also acknowledged his mother’s unwavering support for the King, saying, “She’s always there for him.”
Despite his unique circumstances, Tom has forged a strong bond with his mother, one that flourishes despite the complexities of their blended family.
