A woman’s 13-year marriage was turned upside down when her husband suddenly demanded a separation and planned a drastic move across the country. But what he hid could change everything. She found solace in an old friend, but the truth led her to a shocking crossroads.
The husband’s transformation from happy to irritable and his blunt suggestion of separation left his wife reeling.
As she dug deeper, she uncovered an intense correspondence with a recently divorced acquaintance who helped him land a job. The wife felt betrayed, and online comments labeled her “NTA” (not the a**hole) for her choices.
The husband’s plan to relocate the entire family was unacceptable to the wife, who had made sacrifices for his career before. When she discovered his intention to pursue a sexual relationship, she wondered if she was to blame for considering divorce and seeking custody of their children.
The husband’s past experience without a father figure made him adamant about being present for their kids. However, online comments supported the wife, saying he was angry because she had discovered his secrets and was taking control.
The wife was advised to divorce him immediately and not relocate. The situation raises questions: was the husband’s demand for separation and relocation justified? How would you respond if you were in the wife’s shoes?