A young couple’s engagement has sparked controversy on social media, with some accusing the fiancée of being a gold digger. The 30-year-old groom-to-be, a researcher at a tech company, posted on Reddit seeking guidance on his situation.
He met his 26-year-old fiancée, a marketing professional, at their shared office two and a half years ago. Their relationship has been great, and he admires her organizational skills, which have improved his life.
However, their financial conversation revealed a significant salary difference – he earns fifteen times more than her.
After getting engaged, she asked for a $15,000 diamond ring and wants to quit her job to focus on wedding planning. He’s uncomfortable with her decision, feeling she’s giving up her career too soon. She argues that she’s tired of working long hours and wants to be a stay-at-home fiancée.
Reddit users have mixed opinions, with some calling her a gold digger. The groom-to-be wants to support his fiancée but is concerned about her lack of independence and potential reliance on him. He’s unsure if he’s being unfair or if she’s taking advantage of him.
In an update, the groom-to-be shared that he had a calm conversation with his fiancée, understanding her burnout and desire for a better work-life balance.
She agreed to look for a new job with consistent hours after the wedding and even consider further education.
While some Reddit users remain skeptical, the groom-to-be believes his fiancée is not a gold digger and trusts her intentions. He acknowledges the controversy but hopes for the best while preparing for the worst.
